Calls or emails? Or both? Communication etiquette again

Calls

Artur Orudzhaliev raised a good topic about unnec­es­sary calls in his post “What is a mobile phone for?”

I also get quite a lot of calls, mostly offers to buy some­thing or use some­one’s services. And my most fre­quent answer is: “Thanks, could you send all this to my email?”

I under­stand these people: they’re sales man­agers who are taught that they need to “get through” to the client. And email is a low-contact medium that, as a rule, also gives no feed­back (whether anyone got your email, read it, whether this is even the person who makes the decision).

But at the same time I get angry with them for dis­tract­ing me from work and rest. Which, you’ll agree, does little for our busi­ness relationship.

I’ll ven­ture that my not taking in infor­ma­tion by ear comes from some psy­cho­log­i­cal or ner­vous traits of mine. I sup­pose that I, like many people, am a text person. Text people take in infor­ma­tion well when it’s pre­sented as, atten­tion, text. It’s easy to guess that Orudzhaliev, a jour­nal­ist, is a text person too.

If you want to be a good sales man­ager, it wouldn’t hurt to find out how a poten­tial client takes in infor­ma­tion and serve it to him pre­pared that way. Some people are better called, some writ­ten to, and for some you should draw an infographic.

Since all of this is very indi­vid­ual, such tai­lor­ing only pays off for big deals and/or extremely impor­tant clients.

Emails and calls

There are two schemes here. The first is to follow an email with a call. Personally, it drives me mad:

“I sent it to your email. Please take a look.”

Buddy, why would I have email if I didn’t read it?

By the way, notice which word I used: read, not look…

The second is to follow a call with an email. That’s not so bad. Once we’ve called and talked, it’s fit­ting to remind the other person of our­selves, our con­tacts and our offers in a follow-up ping email. If I’m not mis­taken, Ferrazzi has some­thing like this in Never Eat Alone.

I, for one, can com­pletely forget a con­ver­sa­tion if it barged into my work in the middle of a fairly “deep” state of focus.